Single Parenting

Being a single parent is one of the most difficult yet rewarding jobs out there. I found myself wondering at times how some mothers and fathers are able to balance work, school, kids, dinner, cleaning, and so on without going insane.

Having a support system in place has been a strong backbone for many mothers, including myself. I have been blessed with a mother, 2 siblings and a father (now deceased as of 4 months ago) that have been my foundation.

A schedule for yourself and kids is a must. I know this may seem a bit pointless but believe me, as parents we can easy end up with a calendar filled with things to do and not realize it. Also, be sure to schedule some time for yourself. Even if it's sitting in your tub for 30 minutes reading a book once the children are napping, at school, or with family.

Single parenting as I stated is difficult, no matter how organized you may feel you are. At times we all become overwhelmed and may even cry. This is normal and not a bad thing. Simply cry, scream, even throw something if you must (not in front of your children) and continue your duties as a parent.

Although you may have to sacrifice a great deal now ... in the end it will truly be rewarding!

Please share your advice, tips, and stories. You never know who may need to hear them!

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Here's a useful article that compiles a list of 10 secrets for being a single mom. Enjoy!

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